This year on Father’s Day, I didn’t contact my father. My mother texted me to tell me to do so, and I ignored it. Sir Joshimus and I were getting ready to go on vacation, so I simply shut off my cell phone. Because the idea of calling my father and wishing him well made my stomach turn. And the fact that my mother, whom I hadn’t talked to since MARCH texted me for that made it worse. Continue reading
I read and shared a post a few days ago on Reverb Press, 5 Things I Learned Growing Up Liberal in the Deep South. It was a solid list of things that I’ve found to be true myself. But I disagreed with the commentary – if not necessarily the message, then the delivery of it. Maybe it’s the audience that the article is geared towards – northern liberals. But I want to direct this at the southern conservatives who I know and love. So, here’s my list with my own commentary. Continue reading
I missed a pretty huge anniversary for myself last week. One that I’m really proud of, actually. Two years since the last time I smoked a cigarette. Two years. This is a huge milestone for me because this is the point, last time, where I completely failed and gave up pretending that I had quit. I’ve done what I once feared I’d never be able to accomplish and I’m so proud of that. I’m a bad ass. Continue reading
Do you remember where you were eight years ago today? What you wore? Probably not. If you’re a history buff, this day might hold some meaning for you (just a glance at March 29th’s Wikipedia page will give you an interesting history lesson!). But for most of the world 29 March 2008 was an average early spring day. Continue reading
Over the last four years – though some would say as many as six – every time we’ve been on the verge of moving forward, we’ve been pushed back. What was hopefully only going to be a couple of years has turned into five. And now, that we are on the brink of leaving once more, it’s turned into six. And for a few days, it was like a brick through a glass wall – I crumbled. Continue reading
“Downtown” by Macklemore and Ryan Lewis
As promised last week, mine and Joshimus Rex’s current jam.
I know that it’s already well into Februrary, but I guess better late than never. Our year ended much the way the year had progressed – a slow series of goals reached to move us to our ultimate goal. The biggest of those was probably getting Buttercup paid for a full eight months (I think) early. Not a huge deal, but huge for us. There are still stumbling blocks in our way, but we’re handling them one step at a time.
“Fast Cars and Freedom” by Rascal Flatts
Today I was going to share mine and Sir Joshimus’s current obsession song, but as he was getting ready for work, he turned and looked at me and told me, “You don’t look a day over fast cars and freedom.” So, through tears of love, I had to go listen to this song and decided to share it with y’all today. I’ll go ahead and set up the other one for next week for you guys.
The night was dark and the wind was high,
And away in the distance rose a roaring,
Of some beautiful nightmare lullaby. Continue reading